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Why Chinese Men Make Great Boyfriends
Posted on July 12, 2015 by rubymary

After discovering the tactics for landing dates in Asia, I had romances all across Asia and my dating life was… well, let’s say diverse.
And from my (very small) pool of dating research at this time, I found that the most satisfactory, fun, and long-lasting dates were with none other than Chinese men.


Now, after many hits and misses in the dating scene, I finally found my perfect match: Richard (and surprise! he’s Chinese!).


Here are some reasons why my boyfriend is simply amazing; and coincidentally, why Chinese men make really darn good boyfriends.


They Cook!


Most Chinese men are the cooks in the household. Period.


My boyfriend is no exception. He is an amazing cook that can make the simple stuff taste divine (for example, his fried rice is killer!). Richard also makes aromatic and flavorful curries ala India and Thailand. He can even make mango sticky rice!


They Tend to Be Financially Responsible


Most Chinese men** I have met tend to do a good job of managing their money well. In America, we often see young kids taking out student loans to buy a new sports car, or even young professionals maxing out their credit cards to go out for three digit meals in swanky restaurants, buy a brand bag, or perhaps a closet full of shoes.


This usually doesn’t happen in China (mostly because it can’t), and also because Chinese men tend not to spend needlessly.


Chinese people save. A lot. I’ve heard crazy stories about Chinese parents that worked as janitors for 30 years, living in a hovel all throughout, just so they could pay tuition for their son/daughter to go to the USA and study. Imagine that. Making, perhaps, $100/day and somehow saving enough money to pay for U.S. college tuition. They must have skimped on a lot.


Needless to say, this kind of behavior rubs off on the children. In China, every penny counts. Chinese men tend not to spend what they don’t have and save their money for future necessities (in China, most men buckle down and save in order to buy a house, since it’s a must in order to get married).


My boyfriend is the Chinese Warren Buffet himself. He nearly received a third bachelor degree in business just because he loves to dabble in economics and personal finance. His parents, once low paid teaching assistants in China, managed to scrape up enough money to move around the world until they finally found their place in America. My boyfriend learned the value of a hard earned dollar thanks to his parent’s plight, and thus he also learned how to save it–and more importantly, invest it.


Thanks to Richard, I’m investing in stocks and learning more about how to better manage my money.
**Note: This excludes ‘fuerdai,’ the spoiled, rich, second-generation of Chinese kids.
Chinese Men Put Family First (double edged sword here…)


Thanks to an old guy named Confucius, values in China are placed very heavily on family–and it’s easy to see. Parents pull out all the stops to ensure their child has the best upbringing, and in turn their children take care of the parents in old age.


And that is exactly why family dedication can be a double edged sword. Chinese men often marry whomever their parents approve of. The fairy tale romance of a Chinese man running off with the foreign woman and eloping in some far away land is a rare tale indeed. If the parent’s disapprove, it’s most likely not going to happen.


This also explains why meeting your Chinese boyfriend’s parents is heart attack inducing… but that’s a tale for another time.


Not All (Chinese) Men are Perfect


So when it comes to my Chinese man, he truly makes the best boyfriend for me.